Historically the most common pattern in heterosexual couples is an older man with a younger woman, however the converse (older woman/younger man) has increased significantly in many countries. Factors leading into a search for a significantly younger or older individual with whom to share an intimate relationship can vary wildly. The common perception is that younger mates serve the purpose of a “trophy” or object of status, while older mates are perceived to have greater resources, wisdom, or sexual knowledge. Older women can bring an exciting new dimension to relationships.
How are cougars and woman similar? Check out the new show, “Cougar Town” with Courtney Cox. Is this who she is? Is this what people think of women from Florida? A woman who is 35+, sexually cunning, that prefers to hunt rather than be hunted and is non-committal, choosing to move from mate to mate without ever settling down are called cougars.

The animal seems to be invisible. Studies have shown that cougars are typically solitary, spending most of their lives in well-defined home ranges that vary in size according to a cat’s gender, the season, habitat quality, and prey availability. Generally, male territories are larger than those of females, with females often sharing overlapping ranges. Cougars mark the boundaries of their territories with olfactory signposts, or scrapes, specifically by building and urinating on piles of dirt, pine needles, and leaves.
The omnipresent but rarely seen cougar is not only the most widely distributed New World cat, but definitely the one with the most names. Depending on geographic region, it is called the puma, mountain lion, red tiger, deercat, mountain devil, king cat, Mexican lion, panther, mountain screamer, silver lion, catamount, even sneak cat.
Found from the Canadian Yukon to the tip of South America, from sea level to fourteen thousand feet or more, these adaptable cats have the greatest distribution of any terrestrial mammal in the Western Hemisphere.
Although they cannot roar, cougars have been known to chirp, peep, even whistle. Kittens make a series of short, high-pitched peeps when frightened and adults sometimes produce low, hunting whistles before a chase. The name, screamer, refers to the blood-curdling mating calls produced by a female cougar in estrus.

Cougars are efficient day and night active predators built to leap, climb trees, sprint, and ambush. Cougars have excellent vision, hearing, and olfaction and use these senses to detect and stalk their prey. Long hind limbs in proportion to fore limbs are an adaptation for jumping and easier movement through steep canyons and ravines. Big, padded paws help the cougar navigate through variable terrain and grapple their next meal. Inch-and-a-half-long canines in concert with sheathed claws make them armed and deadly. When prey is detected, the eyes and ears of the cougar fix on the site until the source of motion is determined. With their long tail used for balance, these athletic felines can make incredible leaps in pursuit of prey or to silently disappear into the underbrush.
Although cougars prefer to eat deer and elk, their generalist diet can include everything from mouse to moose, including grasshoppers.
Many cougars are shot on sight by unhappy ranchers in southern Arizona, and Texas where they allow unrestrained cougar killing. In Utah, interest in the sport of cougar hunting is increasing, as reflected by the growing number of pursuit permits being issued each year. While states with cougar populations allow the controlled seasonal hunting of cougars as game animals, California is the only state that, so far, has won a hard-fought battle to eliminate sport hunting for cougar altogether
I’m not really sure how the woman and the animal were tied together but it seems to me that the cougar is a very diverse animal that can adapt to almost any situation, as most woman do…..it has nothing to do with age.
Wow! What wonderful work you are doing. I believe animals and humans are definitely connected and at times animals will show up in our lives to bring our attention to a particular issue we may be having and send us a message i.e. animal totems.
If humans could become more aware of the connections we have I think it would make a difference in all our lives.
The reference to Courtney Cox and Cougar town is why I first checked out this site and while I didn’t find the show particularly good I could relate to Courtney’s character.
When my ex & I were driving over to see an attorney friend about getting a divorced I saw a Vulture closer up than I have even seen even at the zoo. It seamed to be staring at me as we passed it on the side of the road (maybe 2 feet away).
When I looked up the totem meaning for the vulture it said this creature shows up in our lives to remind us to create something positive out of a messy situation. What could be more accurate about divorcing when there are children involved?
What I can relate to about Courtney’s character is the amicable relationship she has with her ex. It makes things much easier. Now what it has to do with the cougar I don’t know because after reading about the cougar on your site the only connection I can see between the animal and an older woman dating younger man is the attitude of some people to condemn or destroy for because it doesn’t fit their belief of how things should be.
Why can’t we help each other survive in this world, whether we are human or animal and live together in harmony?
she’s a cougar for sure… the shows a little bit cheesy though…
I am developing a TV show that has some similarities to Cougar Town- I am bored by this show and its lack of depth. I do love Californication though- genuine human relationships, bright shiny objects (LA) and hot sex- great combo.
always interested to hear what makes folks watch- I really think the cougar thing is lame- but look at where they hunt them. go figure.
The male version, as far as I know is known as a Dog……
Kind in the vein of the ubiquitous: Bow Wow Wow, Yippy Yow-Yippee Yay!
Haven’t seen the show so I can’t honestly tell – the ads for it just put me right off watching it. I am, however, addicted to the male cougar shows Hung and Californication. Out of interest, what do you call the male equivalent of a cougar? Anyone? The mind boggles at the possibilities!
Adreinne Barbeau would have been a great couger in her heyday~
Women have been described as and compared to animals for ages. We’ve been cows, foxes, chicks, dogs, birds, etc., the consistent thread being that it’s not women making these comparisons or creating these descriptions. And like animals our bodies have been controlled by others, exploited by others and sold by others.
Whether Courtney Cox is a cougar or not is irrelevant to me (I’ve never seen the show) and I find the fact that anyone would even consider debating the point, silly, if I am pressed to be polite about it. Living in the 21st century has not changed far too many things, including how women and animals are viewed and treated in our culture.
Hi-Excellent piece with a fun spin. Good productive start to the day … it’s only 9:30a!
I don’t care about Courtney Cox, but I do care about Cougars. Good luck .. Michael, Poland